White Ex-Minister’s Wife Say sßlacksDeserveßeparations
§ TARHEEL V
s ELKS
ON THE
*MOVF,^
A BY A. J. TURNER
V N. C. Publicity Director
It is interesting to note that
the interest In the National
Shrine, which is under contruc
tion in Wlnton, is gaining mo
mentum by the day. As we move
around in the various states,
we find that both the Brothers
and Daughter Elks are very
much keyed up over the fact
that the National Shrine is now
a reality. There is no doubt In
my mind that with this program
being under way, it will have a
tendency to bring in a lot of
new blood and also get back
It he few deserters that we lost.
I I think, if there was ever a
lime that we needed to form a
Bkolid front, it is now. Grand
B;xalted Ruler Hobson R. Reyn
olds and the lodge cannot do
any more than we let them do,
I mean by that, lie can give of
time, his land and anything else
he desires but he must have
our support morally and fi
nancially to do the job that lies
atiead. I am saying tothe lodges
and temples everywhere "let
us do our duty in helping to
build the Shrine."
Members from Fidelity
Lodge No. 277 and Capitol Ci
ty Temple No. 310 of Raleigh
attending the anniversary of the
Fez Club of Salomia Temple in
PLACE WRE ATH UN GRAVE-The above picture shows' oeing
placed on the grave of the late Daughter Carrie Price, the last deceased
member of the Capitol City Temple, Raleigh. Reading from left’to right
are: Daughters Aretha King, Alberta Hicks and other members of Capitol
City Temple No. 310. (See Tarheel Elk on Move, for story ).
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Durham on Saturday night were:
Daughters Eva Coadie, Florine
Moore, Agnes McCabe, Mae
Broadie, Brooksie Farrar, Al
berta Hicks, Mary and Lillian
Turner, Evelyn Franklin and
Rosa Delaine. Brothers attend
ing were A. A. Vance, Lewis
Dunbar, Gathea Harris and
Artis McCabe. According tothe
report given to your writer,
Pres. Jessie Nunn and her group
did a marvelous job in seeing
that everyone in attendance had
a good time. The group over
in the Bull City usually rolls
out the welcome mat.
While working in the nation’s
capitol last week, I had the
pleasure of visiting a former
Raleighite and good friend, J.
Royal (Skink) Browning. He ask
ed me to say to his many friends
that he will be here for the Shaw
University’s homecoming next
month. He also stated that he
was expecting a large group
from Washington to come down
to see Coach (Tricks)Clements
and the Bears.
I must say good da;', since
I am rushing to get out to hear
our Vice President at the Coli
seum this evening.
See you next week.
Don't forget to read your
CAROLINIAN.
Husband, Wife Leave Church;
Claim They Couldn ? t Change It
NEW YORK-The wife of a former Protestant minister, who is white,
declared in a magazine article, released Thursday, that the Blacks have
the “right” to demand money from churches for use by Black community.
“For too long the Black man has contributed his sweat and tears to all
of America’s white institutions, including the Church, and has received
little in return,” Mrs. Floyd Marker of FI Sobrante, California, charg
ed in the current issue of Redbook magazine.
Mrs. Marker, whose husband
left the ministry in 1968, said
that he did so because of the
racial prejudice he found among
the majority of church mem
bers. Mrs. Marker said that
when she and her husband were
criticized for working for fair
housing and other equal rights
she realized, "It is all right
to talk in church about social
problems, but for the Church
to taking an active part Is solv
ing them--that’s going too far.”
She recalled in her Redbook
article that she first became
Involved in civil rights in 1950
in Reno, Nevada, when she wit
nessed the racial injustice
which existed there in hotels
and restaurants. She continued
her fight as her husband mov
ed around from parish to par
ish in Central California. The
oreludice she found amone par
ishioners made her realize
whv the Black man has eone
from “nonviolence to mili
tancy,” she said.
More than three-fourths of
the world’s 1.2 billion children
live in the developing nations.
UNICEF aid helps protect these
children from malnutrition and
diseases and prepares for fu
ture citizenship.
* * *
In the developing nations,
nearly half the population are
under 15 years of age. Approxi
mately three-quarters of the
world’s children live in areas
where the average income is
less than SSOO a year. The Unit
ed Nations Children’s Fund
helps provide better food and
medical care for these youngs
ters.
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“MISS NCCU” CROWNED-North Carolina
Central University President Albert N. Whit
ing crowns Miss Brendell Turner of Burling
ton as “Miss NCCU, 1970-’71,” in recent cere
monies of the campus.
Mrs. Marker, who with hei
husband, is now working out
side the Church to accomplish
necessary changes, expressed
the hope that the Church will
change and become relevant to
the world in which we live.
"We must retain a hope that
change can come about fast e
nough so that violent revolu
tion isn’t the Black man’s only
way of securing his dignity and
his rights,” she said. "The
Church should meet any ‘force’
Jackson 5 Score Grand Slam With
Single As "111 Be There” IsTops
NEW YORK - Mot own’s fan
tastic Jackson 5, who’ve recent
ly broken concert attendance
records in Boston, Cincinnati,
Memphis, New York, Detroit
and Chicago, scored a erand
lam as their latest single “I’ll
Be mere'’ became the fourth
consecutive single record to be
come the number 1 single a
round the country.
Every single that Motown Re
cords has released on the group
has enjoyed sales surpassing
the two and one-half million
mark. The Jackson 5 can now
boast a four for four average
for singles sales.
Not only have the Jackson s’s
records all been million plus
sellers; but within the past two
weeks, they’ve made six record
smashing concert appearances
around the country.
On Oct. 9 at Boston Gardens,
the Jackson 5 drew an audience
of 15,913 payees for a gross gate
Os $78,288; Oct. 10, Cincinnati
Gardens 13,922 payees for a
Eight AST, Bennett Coeds Vying For
Title At Omega 'Mardi Gras ’
GREENSBORO-Eight young
ladies from A&T State Univer
sity and Bennett College are vy
ing for the title of “Miss Mardi
Gras of 1970.”
The winner will be crowned
during impressive ceremonies
at the annual Mardi Gras to be
held Friday, Oct. 30, at 9 p.m.
in the new Exposition Building
in the Greensboro Coliseum a
rea.
“Miss Mardi Gras" will be
crowned by Dr. W. L. T. Mil
ler of Greensboro, a member
of the Tan Omega Chapter of
Omega Tsi Phi Fraternity,
sponsor of the affaii.
The contestants are Miss
Betty Fuller, Henderson; Miss
Debra Hill, White Plains, N.
Y.; Miss Susan Waters, Lynch
burg, Va. Miss Dorothy Cald
well. Rock Hill. S. C.; Miss
Pamela Griffin, Washington, D.
C.; and Miss Deniece Galloway,
Roanoke, Va.
The Mardi Gras is an an
nual activity of the Tau Omega
chapter. Funds realized fiom
the affair provide scholarships
for worthy undergraduates and
graduate scholarships.
This year, the Dali will fea
ture music by two big bands,
Garnet Mimms and the Play
boys arid Geechee Robinson
from Black militants with the
greater ‘force’ oi lover--a
"force that church members pro
fess but seldom use.
“We could meet our Black
brothers more than halfway in
paying reparations on the basis
of brotherhood, by giving out
of a gratitude that we have the
money to give and by giving
with the thankfulness that our
sins (of omission and commis
sion) may yet be pardonable.”
gross of $01,516; Oct. 11 Mem
phis Mid-South Jiseum, 11, -
859 payees for $62,959; Oct.
16 New York’s Madison Square
Garden, 20,000 payees for
$122,000; Oct. 17 Detroit’s
Olympia Stadium, 15,119 payees
for $81,400; and Oct. 18 two
shows at Chicago’s Amphi
theatre 21,000 payees for slOl, -
309.
The six concerts, sold out
within a week after tickets were
put on sale, grossed more than
one-half million dollars while
thousands of the Jackson s’s
fans were turned away.
Labeled as America’s No. 1
singing group, The Jackson 5
were products of Gary, In
diana’s inner-city prior to
being discovered by Motown’s
super-star, Diana Ross.
The Jackson 5 are five broth
ers, who range in age from, lead
singer Michahl, 11, to Jackie, 19.
Other brothers are Marlon, 11,
Jermaine, 15 and Tito, 16.
and his combo. Dress for the
Mardi Gras will be costumes
or semi formal attire.
PREGNANCY
PLANNING
AND
HEALTH
BY MRS. GLORIA RIGOSBEE
Dear Gloria;
I started taking birth control
pills a month ago, not knowing
at that time that I was already
pregnant. Os course, as soon
as I realized I was going to
have a baby, 1 stopped taking
them. Now I am w-orried that
the pills may have harmed the
baby. Is this possible? Or could
they cause me to lose the baby?
My husband and I had not plan
ned to have a baby just yet, but
now that we are expecting, I
don't want to have anything go
wrong. Mrs. \V,
Dear Mrs. \Y.:
No, the birth control pills you
took will not have any effect on
the baby, nor w ill th.ey cause .a
miscarriage. You did not men
tion seeing a doctor since you
discovered you are pregnant.
If you have not yet been to the
doctor, please do so--regular
doctor visits during pregnancy
are very important, both for
your health and that of your
baby.
* * »
Dear Mrs. Riggsbee:
There are so many kinds of
birth control pills now--but
only different brands, but dif
ferent strengths, I understand
some pills are stronger dosages
than others. How does a person
decide which one she should
take 0 P. R.
Dear P. R.;
A woman doesn’t decide which
type of birth control pill she
should take. This is one reason
the pills are not available, ex
cept by prescription. A woman
needs to be examined by a
doctor and interviewed by the
doctor or a nurse or social
worker before a decision is
made as to whether or not she
should take the pill at all, and
if so, which of the many types
of pills now available she should
take. Birth control pills are a
drug, and Just as with any oth
er drug, even aspirin, there are
a few women who should not
take them. As I have said before
in this column, only a doctor
is qualified to decide whether
or not you should take the pill
and what brand and dosage is
best for you. That is why you
should never borrow pills from
a friend or obtain them in any
way other than by a doctor’s
prescription.
>4* * *
Dear Mrs. Riggsbee;
I hope you don’t mind getting
a lette'r from a 12 year old girl.
Some girlfriends and I have
The Psychiatrist’s Corner
By JAMES 11. CARTER, MIL
Dorothea Dix Hospital
'THE SEXUAL DILEMMA* OF
COLLEGE STUDENTS
A few days ago, I was in
vited to speak to a group of
local college students on the
subject of Sex, Courtship and
Marriage. This article is a
sequel to that event. A num
ber of interesting quest ions
m
wr
DR. CARTER
were raised by
the students to
Include the
causes of homo
sexuality and in
cest. Because of
the magnitude of
those issues, I
feel special at
tention should
be devoted to each at a later
date and .for the moment let us
focus our attention on the ques
tions raised concerning sexual
morality and the apparent di
lemma of the college students.
The sexual code that guides
many of today 's colleges stu
dents is far different from that
of only ten years ago. College
physicians mat not all agree
exactly on how the sexual prac
tices have changed or whether
the new sexual freedom is to he
endorsed or rejected, but tiny
all agree that there has been a
qualitative change. Not only is
sexual activity more openly dis
cussed, but that the assump
tions on which morality is based
are themselves changing.
The old deterrents of vene
real disease, pregnancy, and
fear of detection are gone; in
stead of relying on negative
controls or fear, we are com
ing into a new time of positive
control by personal commit
ment and responsibility. It is
upon this premise that across
the country universities are
permitting male and female stu
dents to live in the same dormi
tory facilities.
Any society has to have some
check or regulation on its sevn.ii
behavior if it is not to be gravely
affected by internal tensions.
The absence of any controls on
sexual behavior is advocated by
some as being the solution to the
Social conflict, personal misery
and viclance. If sexual talxios
and the emotional reactions as
sociated with them could lie re
moved, the argument goes, a
world free of tension and guilt
could be created.
been talking about going swim
ming when you have your peri
od. One girl who goes to high
school says the girls go in the
pool whether they are “sick”
or not. But some of us have
been told by our mothers never
to go in swimming at that time
of the month. What is the right
thing to do about this.’ S. 1,
Dear S. T.:
Os course I don’t mind i eceiv
ing a letter from a 12 year old.
I am delighted to hear from
anyone who has a question con
cerning reproduct ion or any
matters relating to this general
area.
Nowaday, mos’ doctors,
health teachers and physical
education teachers agree that
it is perfectly all right lor a
girl to go swimming during her
menstrual period, provided she
wears a tampon or prevent the
water from !>ecorr. ing con
taminated. Swimming or bath
ing in very cold water may
stop the menstrual flow tem
porarily, but indoor pools are
generally heated.
It is true that, in your moth
er’s day, it was generally said
that it would be harmful for a
girl to go swimming or even
shampoo her hair, but this is no
longer the case. The normal,
healthy girl should suffet no
ill effects from swimming, no
matter what time of month it
is.
And please, don’t refer tothe
menstrual period as being
“sick”. This is another “old
fashioned’’ term which should
no longer be used. Having men
strual periods is a normal bodi
ly function of a healthy female,
not a “sickness!”
* * *
Dear Gloria;
I w’ould like to have a copy
of that free booklet you men
tioned one time, about tests
and treatments for people who
want, to have a baby, but have
not been able to. I can’t remem
ber the name of it but hope you
know which one 1 mean. b.s.
Dear S. S.:
The booklet you want is call
ed “fertility Tests and Treat
ments” and I am sending you a
free copy in the mail today.
This booklet, or a booklet which
explains birth control methods,
will be sent free of charge to
anyone who requests one.
Send your requests and your
letters to: Mrs. Gloria Riggs
bee, 214 Cameron Avenue, Cha
pel Hill, N. C. 27514.
THE CAROLINIAN
RALEIGH, N, C., °DAY, OCTOBER 31, 1970
People who take this point
of view are usually Ignorant
of both history and psychology,
because experience seems to
show ihat whenever unrestrain
ed sexual freedom has been
tried it resulted in social chaos.
However, the new climate of
sexual freedom has a number
of advantages over that of the
pas l , particularly in the healthy
elimination of much of the guilt,
hypocris secrecy, and morbid
fascination which have in the
past clouded physical relation
ships. There is no reason for
the older generation to assume
that standards are being aband
oned ; ust because the issues are
being openly discussed. It is not
sexual behavior that determines
character, but character that
determines sexual behavior.
The frankness with which this
particular group of young adults
discussed sex is without a doubt
much more refreshing, natural,
and appropriate to man’s
basic nature than the tenseness,
overrestraints, and artificial
separation of physical and e
motional love required by older
standards. Most psychiatrist
believe that this new freedom
leads to greater emotional
health, better ability to com
municate with others, and de
creased tension during the early
months of marriage.
Most college psychiatrists
have come to the conclusion
that the students who ignore sex
ual standards are not more
happy or effective than stu
dents who observe those stand
ards; they are, in fact, the
ones most affected w ith depres
sion, anxiety and the loss of
self-esteem. Therefore it
seems safe to say that although
sexual restrictions can and do
produce emotional disorders,
complete sexual freedom pro
duces .-ven more disabling con
flicts. The essential task of
college education, psychiatrist
and administrators as well as
faculty members-is to learn
what freedom and what re
straints are necessary and bow
to set these up in the total
context of college life.
Finally, sexual relations will
be satisfying or not depending
on whether the total relation
ship is satisfying. What, then is
matun sexuality and how is it
ittaii First of all, it is a
respect for the sexual com
ponent of the personality. It
means an acceptance of sexual
feelings and urges an appropri
ate ps; chosoxual relation with
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other persons, and it assumes
that such relations are normal,
desirable, and good when they
are carried out with appropriate
consideration for the needs of
others as well aa oneself.
EVERS ENDORSES ROCKE
FELLER -Schenectady, N. Y.:
Mayor Charles Evers of Fay
ette, Miss., endorses Gov. Nel
son Rockefeller of New York
for re-election in a speech at
Union College here last week.
Evers, a Democrat, said Rocke
feller would probably be sur
prised to hear of the endorse
ment. (UPI).
HC Chapter 0!
State College
Alumni Meet
The N. C. Chapter of Mor
gan State College Alumni As
sociation of Baltimore, Md.will
meet Saturday, Oct. 3i, in
Greensboro, at 821 Pearson St.
The business session w ill be
gin at 11 a.m. All graduates of
Morgan State College, who live
in N. C. aie expected to be
there. The general session will
end early enough for football
fans to witness the game with
the Morgan State College Bears
and the A&T University Aggies
at War Memorial Stadium.
The state officers are: Presi
dent, Booker T. McCallum,
Greensboro; secretary, Mrs.
Doris Moultry, Winston-
Salem; treasurer, Attorney F.
J. Carnage, Raleigh; Southern
Regional Director, Mrs. Minet
ta Eaton, Raleigh; Reporter,
Jonathan Campbell, Winston -
Salem.
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