Sanderson-Jarman Wed
Yvonne Carol Jarman and Victor
Glenn Sanderson were united in
nqarrlage on Saturday, November 2,
19SS-, at three o'clock in the after
noqn at Smith's Presbyterian Church
of Pink Hill. The Rev. David Wil
I ingham officiated at the double-ring
cerfcmpny.
"The-bride is the daughter of Mr.
ahd Mrs. John Harold Jarman of
Pink; Hill and the groom is the son of
?nd Mrs. Kenneth Sanderson of .
Beulaville. The bride is the grand
daughter of Herbert Guy and Lettie
Jarman. and the late Johnnie and
Johnnie Agnes Smith who lived at
Pink Hill. TTie groom is the grandson
of Levy and Belle Sanderson and
JaOies and Ruby Mobley, ail of
Beulaville.
A program of traditional wedding
music was presented by Edgar Wells
of Tcachey, painist. Mrs. Mary Gold
Bell of Albertson sans "Looking
Through the Eyes of Love,"
''Whither Thou Goest," and "The
Wedding Prayer."
The couple spoke their nuptial
vows in front of an altar centered
with a 15-branch candelabra and two
tree candelabras. A double kneeling
bench, ferns and green flowing
palms flanked the center arrange
ment. The front entrance was ad
orned with ferns and large white
bows graced the wrought iron rail
ing.
The ceremony began with the
lighting of the altar candles by Avery
Jarman and Ricky Sanderson.
Escorted to the altar by her father,
the bride chose for her wedding a
formal gown of white organza over
taffeta. The fitted bodice was
fashioned with a sculptured neckline
of Chantilly lace on a wide yoke of
English net. The bodice was deco
rated with bridal pearl accents on
silk Venise lace and Chantilly lace.
Rolled ruffles of organza adorned the
shoulders and lone tapered sleeves
' of organza and lace which extended
to calla pointes over the hands. The
A-line skirt of organza over taffeta
was softly gathered at the sides and
back and fell gracefully from the
basque waistline. Lace and rolled
organza ruffles adorned the hemline
and swept into the cathedral train.
Scattered motifs of lace decorated
the train. The headpiece was a derby
? hat accented with lace and pearls
- with an organza brim with an
I attached pouf, pencil-edged, finger
; tap-length of silk illusion. She carried
- a silk- cascade bouquet of white and
" mauve roses interspersed with gyp
I sophfla and English ivy.
? - Ms. Lisa Bell of Albertson served
- as maid of honor. She wore a
Victorian stvle, formal-length gown
of rose satin with puffed sleeves. She
- carried a hand-spray of silk mauve
? roses sprinkled with babies'-breath
I and ribbons.
? Bridesmaids were Mrs, Kaye S.
Williams of Pink Hill, sister of the
groom; Ms. Joy Albertson of Beula
I ville. and Ms. Tracey Smith of Pink
; Hill, cousin of the bride. They wore
- dresses identical to that of the maid
I of honor and carried a hand spray of
I silk mauve roses sprinkled with
? babies'-breath andxibbons.
- . The flower girl was Abby Jo
I Smith, cousin of the bride. She wore
' a mauve taffeta tea-length dress with
? a wide sash. She carried a wicker
basket holding silk mauve and white
; roses and white flower petals that
? -she scattered down the aisle.
The groom chose a formal tuxedo
I of grey with a white shirt and grey
vest, bowtie and miniature mauve
rose boutonniere.
Kenneth Sanderson served his son
as best man. He wore a grey tuxedo
with a white shirt, grey vest, bowtie
and miniature mauve rose bouton
niere. Groomsmen were Marty
Williams of Pink Hill, brother-in-law
of the groom, Avery Jarman of Pink
Hill, brother of the bride: and Ricky
Sanderson of Beulaville, brother ot
the groom. They were dressed
identically to the best man.
The mother of the bride chose a
street-length dress of pink crepe
with lace inserts down the full
length sleeve and bodice. The
mother of the groom chose a street
leneth mauve dress with lace inserts
on the bodice. Both wore miniature
mauve rose corsages.
The wedding was directed by Mrs.
Lynda Stroud of Pink Hill. Ms.
Janice Byrd presided at the register
and Ms. Ellen Houston was program
attendant, both of Beulaville. Rice
bags were given out by Kelly Smith
of Pink Hill and Anitra Branyan of
Virginia Beach, Virginia.
Before the bride and grixpn left
the church, their guests joined them
in releasing a multitude of burgundy
and white helium-filled balloons.
The bride is a graduate of East
Duplin High School and Lenoir
Community College, where she
earned an A.A.S. degree in business
administration. She is employed by
Thomas Turner, Accountant.
The groom is a graduate of East
Duplin High School and is employed
by National Spinning Co., Inc. of
Beulaville.
After a wedding trip to Williams
burg, Virginia, the couple will reside
at Route 2, Pink Hill.
Cake Cutting
Following the rehearsal on
November 1, a cake-cutting given by
the bride's parents, was held at the
church. The wedding cake was
decorated with mauve and white
rosebuds. A flowing fountain was
also used. Ms. Zelda Smith of Mount
Olive, aunt of the bride, served the
wedding cake. The punch was served
by Mrs. Jackie Branyan of Virginia
Beach, Virginia, cousin of the bride.
Also assisting were: Mrs. Linda
Rhodes, Mrs. Joyce Tyndall, Mrs.
JoAnn Jones, Mrs. Beth Chltty and
Mrs. Ruby Mae Smith. Other re
freshments served were fruit and
vegetable trays, Mexican meatballs,
pastry cups of chicken salad, lemon
and cherry fillings, open-fa.-cd sand
wiches, sausage balls, beef ball with
. assorted crackers, drummettes,
orange balls, lady fingers, tempt-me
truffles, mints, pickles and nuts.
Other Coarteelee
On September 21, a bridal
luncheon was given by Mrs. Joyce
Tyndall of Kinston at the Ullage
Green Tea House.
On September 27, a floating
miscellaneous shpwer at Smith's
Presbvterian Oiiirch in Pink Hill was
given by Mrs. Linda Rhodes, Mrs.
Geraldine Tucker, Mrs. Jo Ann
Jones, Mrs. Donna Smith and Mrs.
Nell Rogers.
On October 4, a miscellaneous
shower at Lyman Fire Department
was given by Mrs. Peggy Sanderson,
Mrs. Janet Eubanks,, Mrs. Bma
Grey Walton and Mrs. Kaye S.
Williams.
On October 12, a lingerie shower
was given by Ms. Lisa Bell, Mrs.;
Kaye S. Williams, Ms. Joy Albert son
and Ms. Tracey Smith at the Bell
home.
On October 19. a barbecue was
given bv the groom's parents adQ
Lyman Fire Department.
Organizational Meeting Dec. 2 For Duplin Hospice
There will be an organizational
meeting for Hospice in Duplin
County on Monday, Dec. 2 at 7:30
p.m.
This meeting will be held in the
auditorium at James Sprunt Tech
nical Institute in Kenansville.
Judi Lund, executive director for
Hospice of North Carolina, will be
the guest speaker. The meeting is
sponsored by Home Health and
Hospice Care, Inc.
For more information, contact
Phyllis Hardy at 658-5083 or
1-800-722-3842.
Hi?pice. What is it? Perhaps in
the past few months it is a term you
have heard frequently. Hospice is a
program that provides support and
care to terminally ill patients and
their families during theTinal stages
of the disease. Terminal illness
knows no bounds of race, sexi or
financial status, and it is important
ihat support be available to both
patients and families during this
difficult time.
'Hospice is a concept ? a way of
caring for those who are suffering.
The word derives from a Latin word
meaning "a wayfare for weary
travelers." The term originated in
the Middle Ages when the monks
provided havens of rest for those
traveling to the religious crusades.
Dame Cicely Saunders started the
hospice movement in 1967, when she
opened St. Christopher's Hospice in
London. The first hospice in the U.S.
was started in 1974 in New Haven,
Connecticut. Today there are over
1,000 hospices providing care in the
U.S. and a large number are being
developed.
What is hospice care today? There
are several kinds of hospice care. St.
Christopher's Hospice in London is
an inpatient facility. Terminal pa
tients move into this hospice
building to live until they die.
Restrictions regarding visitation,
food, etc. that normally govern insti
tutional care are waivered and
families are free to come and go as
necessary. Another type of hospice
care is provided through an inpatient
ward at a hospital. As with the free
standing hospice, restrictions are
waivered for this unit and hospice
care is done on this ward. The third
means of hospice care, the most
popular, and (he type that will be
offered in this county is in the
patient's own home. Historically,
dying at home has come "full circle"
and more and more people are
expressing desires for arrangements
as such. Support and care will be
given to the patient and family
within the comfort of their home.
In hospice care, it takes team
effort to provide the care necessary
to assure quality of life. Who is a
part of that team and what are their
roles?
First of all, (he patient and family
are treated as a unit. Patients with
terminal illness are as diverse in
their values and lifestyles as any
other group of people. Their physi
cal, spiritual and emotional needs
remain unique throughout the final
life phase. Patients are encouraged
to express their priorities so that
needs can be best met. Family
members are encouraged to parti
cipate in the patient's care as much
as possible.
The physician plays a very im
nitrtonl rulp in hivcntpp pflfp Hp
generally refers the patient to
hospice care, and if the referral
comes from another source, he must
give his consent for hospice care.
The doctor is a key member of the
hospice interdisciplinary team and
provides the essential contributions
of reviewing the patient's diagnosis
and status, prescribing medication
and treatment for symptom relief,
' participating in patient care con
ferences, and provides overall
medical supervision.
The nurse involved in hospice care
is responsible for assessing patient
needs and providing direct nursing
care as needed. The nurse is
available to the patient and family 24
hours, seven days a week.
A social worker is an important
member of the hospice care team.
The social worker will also make an
initial assessment to determine the
patient and family's psychosocial
needs, and can work with that family
to provide counseling and to coordi
nate community resources. The
patient's minister can also provide
spiritual counseling for the patient
and family. If there is no affiliation or
preference, hospice will provide a
minister if requested.
Volunteers are an important part
of hospice care, and can be utilized
in many different ways. In hospice
care, volunteers are essential in the
provision of quality care. Let's look
at some of the ways volunteers can
be utilized.
First, many volunteers prefer to do
direct patient service. With this kind
of volunteer work, services are
rendered to both patients and fami
lies in a way that supports keeping
that patient at home. Some of the
services ihese volunteers might pro
vide include silting with a patient to
provide respite time for the family
members to run errands, read to
patient, household chares ? what
ever (he patient and family need.
Volunteers who choose to provide
direct patient service in hospice must
complete a specially designed train
ing session, and individual interview
with the director of the hospice
program.
Another way one might serve is as
a bereavement volunteer. Hospice
affirms the need for continued
support of the hospice family after
the death of the patient and con
tinues to be available to that family
for as long as there is a need. These
volunteers are also mandated to
complete the training and interview.
Hospice care cannot be an indi
vidual task. To be done in the most
productive manner and one so as to
assure quality of life requires team
effort. It's everyone working to
gether to make the road less lonely.
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Celebrate Golden Anniversary
Mr. and Mrs. Eugene Small of Route 1, Pink Hill, were honored with a
reception celebrating their golden wedding anniversary on Sunday,
November 3. The reception was held at the Veterans oi Foreign Wars Hut in
Pink Hill and was hosted by their children, Mr. and Mrs. Robert B. Small Sr.
of Kinston, and Mr. and Mrs. Frederick E. Small Sr. of Virginia Beach,
Vireinia. Approximately 115 guests attended. They were greeted by the
couple's son and daughter-in-law, Mr. and Mrs. Robert B. Small Sr. Mrs.
Betty Sue Cecchini of Pink Hill, niece of the couple, presided at the guest
register. Refreshments were served by Mrs. Barbara Davis of Pink Hill and
Mrs. Gara Barwick of Deep Run. Punch was served by Mr. and Mrs.
Frederick E. Small, son and daughter-in-law of the couple. Wedding cake
was served by Mrs. Sue Johnson of Kinston. Brian Small and Scott Small of
Kinston, grandsons of the couple, and Mrs. Marsha Brewer of Pink Hill
attended Mrs. Small at the gift table. Mr. and Mrs. Small were married on
November 1, 1935. They have two sons, five grandsons, one granddaughter
and two great -grandchildren.
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