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Home, Swee
A home is not just a house. It's a
sanctuary where persons love and
care for another.
Two basic marital needs contribute
to making a home. John has a need
for "peace and quiet" at home or
what author Willard Harlev calls
"domestic support." Mary needs
John to be a good father to their I
children. Harley calls this "family I
commitment." I agree that both are
legitimate needs, but add that it is
easier naming them than doing them.
In John's fantasy, each day he can
come home to a clean house with a
iwiiig wuc aim wcu-uciiavtu
children. Mar}' urges him to sit down
and relax before sitting down with
the family to a delicious dinner.
Later the family enjoys a pleasant
evening with everyone going to bed
at a reasonable hour.
Along with many modern wives,
Mary' laughs when she hears this fantasy.
You can understand her position.
She works outside the home just
as John does. "Why shouldn't John
help me around the house?" Mary
thinks.
That's not the point. John should
help. Only, his basic need for support
doesn't rule out helping make life
more pleasant.
Harley contends that "the male
need for his wife 'to take care of
things' " is
widespread . . . regardless of the
rhetoric about what "male
chauvinist pigs" ought to do about
shaping up, the truth is this: In
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Cedar Grove Missionary Baptist 1
Church will cm- i
phasize the im'
portance
.3B Christian <
VKCBfl motlierhood in its I
11 a.m. worship !
^Hjs7 service Sunday, 1
with the pastor,
Rev. Freeman
tt Cause, in charge
of the ministry of
the word.
During the service, a formal
Mother's Day tribute will be given by
Perita B. Price, wife of Anthony
Price and daughter of Mr. and Mrs.
Dolphus Bryant.
The church's pastor, officers and
members invite the public. 1
She's A Winner
As she sits in Sunday School class
at Cedar Grove Missionary Baptist \
Church, or in the sanctuary during 1
me morning worship service, I
graceful and humble, we are ex- 1
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families where the wife has a fulltime
career, the typical husband
wants to be cared for by having his
wife do certain domestic chores.
How can this happen in John and
Mary's situation where both have
careers? Harley suggests that every
couple needs to develop a proper division
of labor. This means listing all
the tnelre nnA ...AaU K.. KsvtW ?
v'iew Associational family as well as
:ellow West Brunswick High School
seniors with her most recently won title.
She won the county ACT-SO
scholarship competition April 16.
Her parents are the John
McMillians of the area.
Association To Meet
The Cedar Grove Improvement
Association meets Friday, May 13, at
its usual time in the church dining
hall. Members and potential
members are encouraged to attend.
Happy Birthday
Happy birthday to Shirley Robinson,
Angie and Jeauifer Coatney,
Soma Bellamy, Lorenza Hewett,
Carolyn M. Bellamy, Norman
Hank ins, Reginald Lofton Hewett,
iris Lee Hewett, Brenda Faye
Johnson, Pearlie Bryant, Ola Frink,
iubert "Bobby" Johnson, Earnell
Hewett, Evelyn Johnson, Newton
icott, Dessie Grissett, Josie Pugh,
Jimmie Hankins and Brandon Gore.
Tune In
Be sure to listen to WVCB Radio
1410 AM) in Shallotte at 3 p.m.
Thursday and 10:15 a.m. Saturday
'or the Cedar Grove Area News.
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the following four categories: (1)
inrnnip-ppnpratinp aptivitip*;
(money-producing); (2) child-care
I anything that involves care of
children); (3) household responsibilities
(cooking, cleaning,
washing, ironing, home organization};
and (4) repair and home
maintenance activities (repair and
maintain home, car and mechanical
possessions).
After setting down a complete inventory,
estimate present division of
labor, then adjust each other's list to
create a fair division with your
spouse. Today for John to have
domestic support, he and Mary' must
create this fair division of labor.
Mary has a need around the home
GROVE AREA NF
Dlans Mothers' 1
jeriencing, watching an " '87 Black
Pearl." And not only that, can you
jnagine that Ursula McMillian is
ilso on her way to Washington, D.C.,
;o compete in the national ACT-SO
competition in drama? Ursula is cerainly
"taking it to the top," and she
las brought lots of inv tn thn flnnon
>s Joint Effort
too. She needs John to spend more
time with his children and to contribute
to their well-being. She needs
him to be a good father, an involved
father. By developing what
sociologists call "quality family
time," John can strengthen his marriage
to Mary and his ties with his
children.
Hariey recommends that every
father spend 15 hours a week as a
goal for "quality family time." This
includes all meals together as a family,
going to church together, going
out for walks, attending sports
events, reading to the children before
bedtime and family projects. The activities
keep changing. When your
children reach their teens, spending
tnis mucn time with them will tax
your ingenuity. They want to spend
most of their tunc with their friends.
That's why John must begin "quality
time" when his children are still
young.
Today there arc thousands of books
on parenting. They will tell John of
his need for consistent and persistent
discipline, of how to reach agreement
with Mary on all matters concerning
their discipline and a whole lot more.
Attempting to digest their contents
will please Mary no end. She knows
"the best husband is a good father."
Both John and Mary want a good,
loving home, working together they
can create it.
(Dr. Stan Smith is the minister of
Camp United Methodist Church in
Shallotte.)
MS
rribute
On Sunday at 3:30 p.m. listen for
the Moments of Inspiration gospel
music program.
Weekly Scripture
The Scripture for the week comes
from Psalms 63:3, "For Jehovah's
love and kindness are better to me
than life itself. How I praise him
thrmioh Christ .Tocnc hie cnnl"
Gospel Sing
Set Saturday
Jennies Branch Baptist Church
will host a gospel sing on Saturday,
May 7, at 7:30 p.m.
Among the groups scheduled to
sing are the Sabbath Home Baptist
Church Quartet and trumpet soloist,
the I^ttie's Grove Trio and the
Elaine Pigott and Jojuan Somersett
Duet.
The public is invited to the praise
service.
Griffin Cemetery
Clean-Up Slated
A spring clean-up day will be held
Saturday, May 7, at Griffin Cemetery
on Mill Branch Road in Ash.
Work will begin early, and all those
who have friends or relatives buried
in the cemetery are asked to bring
rakes and lawnmowers and work.
"It's very important," said
spokesman Doris Gore.
You Are Invited
To Worship With Us
East Sibe
Aasemblg
NON-DENOMINATIONAL
Sunday, 10 AM, 7 PM
Wednesday, 7 PM
Village Rd., across
from Shallotte Dry Cleaners
Pastor, Bobby Causey
. .liufy mug Ul ,, w, Ml UUUUI^Ul k, r
died April 30 in Dosher Memorial
Hospital. c
A graveside service was held May K
3 in the Old Smithville Burying a
Ground, with Rev. Frank Ross and
Rabbi Albert A. Gordon officiating.
A native of Washington, D.C., King S
had lived in Southport since 1950. He ri
served as a lieutenant colonel with
U.S. Army Intelligence during World h
War II, was retired as a broker from C
Philip King Associates Realty, and w
was a member and past president of C
the Brunswick County Board of A
Realtors.
Survivors include his wife, Mrs.
Susan Tate King of the home; a son,
Philip King III of Vienna, Va.; two y,
daughters, Susan H. King of Kailua, h
Hawaii, and Jeanette King Lasley of
Charlottesville, Va.; and sue grand- i
children. y
Memorial contributions may be p
made to the Southport Rescue Squad.
EVERETT J. SKIPPER JR. 4
Everett J. Skipper Jr., 62, of Wilm- j,
ington, died April 29. v
The funeral was held May 2 in the y
Coble Ward-Smith Chapel, with Dr. w
David Goodroe and Pastor A.L. w
McGee officiating. Burial was in r
Oleander Memorial Garden. C
Born in Brunswick County on July
6,1925, he was the son of the late E.J. y
and Annie Benton Skipper Sr. and ^
stepson of Viola Mintz Skipper of j,
Leland. 0
He was a World War II U.S. Army c
veteran and was retired from E.A.
Rusher Meat Packing Co. after 48
years of service. He was a member of j
Calvary Baptist Church and g
American Legion Post No. 10. y
In addition to Ids stepmother, survivors
include his wife, Mrs. Annie 1
Mae Odom Skipper of the home; a v
son, Charles E. Skipper of Wilmington;
a daughter, Mrs. Dian G. j
Workman of Wilmington; two y
brothers, Carl Skipper of Wilmington j
and William E. Skipper of Leland;
three sisters, Mrs. Vetnia Pridgen of u
Wilmington, Mrs. Inez Pope of j
Leland and Mrs. Agnes Watson of a
Inland; and four grandchildren. i,
GARY JEROME SMITH
Gary Jerome Smith, 30, of Delco,
died April 28.
The funeral was held April 30 in
Prosper Baptist Church, with Rev.
Bob Compton officiating. Burial was
in the Prosper Cemetery.
Survivors include a daughter, Carrie
Lynn Smith of Delco; his father
and stepmother, Roland and Shirley
Smith of High Point; mother and
stepfather, Joseph and Virginia
Suggs of Sunset Beach; a brother,
Anthony Craig Smith of Sunset
Beach; a sister, Sherry Lynn Daniels
of Lumberton; and a half-sister, Lee
Ann Smith of High Point.
CATHERINE
BROADWELL SUMMER LIN
Catherine Broadwell Summerlin,
64, of Sunset Beach, died April 29.
The funeral was held May 2 in the
Hall-Wynne Chapel in Durham, with
burial in Maplewood Cemetery.
Survivors include her husband,
James Lester Summerlin; a son,
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Deaths
MARGUERITE DAY BIDDLE
Marguerite Day Biddle, 63, of t
Wilmington, died April 25 in New (
Hanover Memorial Hospital. 1
The funeral was held April 27 in An- I
drews Market Street Chapel by Rev. t
Horace Jackson and Rev. Thurman 1
Allred, with burial in Oakdale ?
Cemetery. c
Born in Rock Hill, S.C., on Nov. 3, E
1924, she was the daughter of the late
Fred N. and Mary Carver Day.
Survivors include her husband, ?
Robert A. Biddle of the home; a C
daughter, Mrs. Julia Biddle Anderson
of Leland; a sister, Mrs. Mary II
Woolard of Delco; a brother, Fred N. ?
TTT t?7i!? r 1
l/uj aaa ui niuiuiigiuiii ioui granuchildren
and one great-grandchild. S
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JOHN IE MAC FORD JR. F
Johnie Mac Ford Jr., 40, of E
Shallotte, died April 29 of injuries s
sustained in an automobile accident, v
The funeral was to be held 3 p.m. f1
May 4 in Holy Bethel Holiness V
Church, with burial ir. the church !'
cemetery. v
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PHILIP KING JR. a
Philin V\r\rt In Of* A ?i
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Estates, for the past year while
truggling with leukemia. He had
forked in automobile advertisting
or the Hearst Newspapers in
Washington, Detroit and Boston from
mo iftJO ?J t thin t. met
"io w uni, cxiiu iiuiu anti m 10m,
fas president and owner of a Nash
ealership in Alexandria, Va. He was
ctive in the auto business in the
Washington, D.C., area until age 85.
Survivors in addition to his son inlude
a daughter, Marie E. Probey of
;ensington, Md.; 12 grandchildren
nd seven great-grandchildren.
BRANTLEY MILLER PATE JR.
Brantley Miller Pate Jr., 75, of
outhport, died April 29 at his
ssidence.
A Mass of the Resurrection was
eld May 2 at Sacred Heart Catholic
hurch, Southport. A second service
as to be held May 4 at Ft. Meyer
"napei, Arlington, Va., with buriai in
M.tt 1 /-i *
iiuigwn nauuiuii veineiery. I
JOHN BRYANT |
MAULTSBY SR. |
John Bryant Maultsby Sr., 86, of |
Wilmington, died May 2 in New
anover Memorial Hospital.
A graveside service was to be held
I a.m. May 4 in Greenlawn
lemorial Park, with Rev. James L. 1
ollard officiating. I
Born in Brunswick County on April
1902, he was the son of the late 1
osiah and Cora Gause Maultsby. He I
as the widower of Barbara Goodwin 1
iaultsby. A retired signal inspector I
rith Seaboard Coastline Railroad
rith45 years of service, he was also a 1
lembcr of Pearsall Presbyterian 1
Whurch. 1
Survivors include two sons, John B. 1
Iaultsby Jr. of Whiteville and
awrence S. Maultsby of Wilm- '
igton; a sister, Mrs. Gertrude Mintz .
f u;iir~i~-??~~ t . '
i ii luiuugiuii, anu iour grana- i
hildren. 1
LILA HINNANT HAYES 1
Lila Hinnant Hayes, 95, of Bowden 1
lursing Home, and formerly of 1
hallotte, died April 28 in Cape Fear <
lemorial Hospital, Wilmington.
The funeral was held April 30 with '
)r. James D. Whetstone officiating, t
nth burial in Oakdale Cemetery.
She was the daughter of the late
llihu and Blanche Barnes Hinnant. '
Irs. Hayes was a member of Temple
laptist Church.
Survivors include two sons, 1
William S. Moore of Shaliotte and 1
ames S. Moore of Forestville, Md.;
sister, Mable Marshburn of Wilm- 1
igton; five grandchildren; 13 great- 1
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lames D. Summerlin of Durham; a
laughter, Mrs. Gordon Turner of
Jrcensboro; a sister, Mrs. Florine
tespass of Durham; three brothers,
Ddward D. Broadwell Jr. of Fayeteville,
James Reid Broadwell of
Cameuli, Hawaii, and William R.
iroadwell of Clinton; five grandhildren
and two greatirandchildren.
LEX) SUGRUE
Leo Sugrue, 89, died April 30 at
Irunswick Village Residential Care ;
lenter.
The funeral was held May 3 at Col- ]
ins r unerai Home, University
loulevard, Silver Spring, Md. I
A native of Washington, D.C., ,
ugrue had been living with his son ]
nd daughter-in-law, Mr, and Mrs. ]
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grandchildren; and 10 great-greatgrandchildren.
ELMA FRINK HUGHES
Elma Frink Hughes, 90, of West
Mifflen, Pa., died April 30.
Born in Brunswick County on Aug.
25, 1897, she was the daughter of the
late John Henry Fletcher Frink and
Frances Olive Long Frink. She was
preceded in death by her husband,
3lan T. Hughes.
A graveside service was held May
1 in McKeithan Cemetery,
Longwood, with Father Reginald
Bliss officiating.
Survivors include a son, William
Hughes of Pittsburgh, Pa.; a
jauguier, reggy riucKSiein 01 west
Mifflen, Pa.; three sisters, Lelia
Bullard of Greenville, S.C., Mina
Ui;iminnfnn nn/4 E??.94kmn
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Howell of Miami, Fla.; and four
grandchildren.
DALE GAFFNEY
Dale Gaffney, 64, of Ocean Isle
3each, died April 26 in The
Irunswick Hospital.
The funeral was held April 28 in
imp United Methodist Church,
Jhallotte, with Rev. Dr. Stan Smith
ind Rev. Dan Norman officiating.
Jurial was in Brunswick Memorial
hardens.
Members of the Shallotte
/olunteer Rescue Squad, of which
Saffney was a member, served as
active and honorary pallbearers.
Gaffney was retired from Mitchell
!t Becker Steel Co. of Charlotte.
Survivors include his wife, Carolyn
iV. Gaffney of the home; three sons,
"raig Scott Gaffney of Statesville,
Patrick Dale Gaffney of Plneville
ind Martin Brian Gaffney of
Charlotte; two daughters, Cynthia G.
Hoback of Charlotte and Kathleen
Purvis of Franklin, Tenn.; and nine
grandchildren.
LYDIA ALICE
FENSTERMACHER
Lydla Alice Fenstermacher, 70, of
foiling Spring Lakes, died April 20 at
ler residence.
A native of Shamokin, Pa., she had
ived here since 1977. She was retired
rom Sears, Roebuck Co. after 25
rears of service and was a member
>f Southport Presbyterian Church.
Survivors include her husband,
Oonald J. Fenstermnrhpr nf thfi
name; two sons, Donald James
Fenstermacher of Dayton, Ohio, and
/erl Thomas Fenstermacher of West
[Tenton, N.J.; three sisters, Mrs.
Dlive Steiner of Shamokin, Pa., Mrs.
June Bird of Catawissa, Pa., and 1
Mrs. Minnie Martin of Millsboro,
Del.; a brother, Ned Miller of Har-isburg,
Pa.; and two grandchildren,
Cristen Fenstermacher of Long
3each and Thomas Fenstermacher
>f Warminster, Pa.
Memorial contributions may be
nade to the American Cancer Sociey
PAULINE KING
Pauline King, 81, of Shallotte, died
April 23 at her home.
The funeral was held April 27 in
Pleasant View Baptist Church by
Rev. James Smith, with burial in
Mulberry Cemetery.
Survivors include a sister, Mrs.
Pinks Vaught; and a brother,
Rudolph Hill.
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