DEAR SALLY
BY SALLY SHAW
DEAR SALLY: My parents
f am to think that young peo
■ pie should hide their love, just
as though they were ashamed of
it. My fiance and I are very
much in love, but every time
we happen to set close together
either at home or out some
where, or If we happen to hold
hands while we’re walking, my
parents have fits. And If we
should kiss each other, either
in greeting or good-by, you'd
think we had done something
downright immoral! How about
this? MONITORED.
DEAR MONITORED: There
are parents who just don’t like
to see their children do these
things--even though they them
selves probably did much the
same once upon a time. About
all you can do is to try to make
your loye a little more private,
a little less demonstrative In
the presence of your parents.
And after all, true love doesn’t
have to be proved by public
display.
* * *
y DEAR SALLY: lam inreceipt
'of the "most unusual” invtta-
tier, in my life -a “money
shower.” This has thrown me
for a loss. In the first place,
if I were to accept I would not
know just how much money I
would be expected to “donate”
to the bride. In the second
place, if I were decline, I don’t
know whether I’d still be ex
pected to mail a gift of money.
And In the third place, I can’t
help feeling this sort of invi
tation is presumptuous and in
poor taste. How do you feel a
bout it? H. M.
DEAR H, M.: The same as
you. And in your place I
shouldn’t hesitate to decline. .
nor should I mail any “dona
tion.”
* * *
DEAR SALLY: My fiancee
wants to give me a wedding
ring when we are married, and
I don’t like the idea. To me, a
v ■ doing ring on a man's finger
Vbrays marks him as a “hen
pecked husband.” I realize of
course that you are a woman,
v. mt regardless of this I’d still
appreciate your comments on
this. MIKE.
DEAR MIKE: Woman though
I may be, the first still remains
that there are many, many men
today who wear wedding rings
and are still anything but “lien
pecked. ’’ Or course, whether
you do or do not wear a ring
is entirely up to you, but if
your fiancee really wants very
much for you to wear one, rath
er than create any fuss, why not
go along with her?
* * *
DEAR SAI.I Y: The members
of m\ women’s bridge club
customarily put up a SI.OO fee
each, for prizes when we play.
THE VETERANS
CORNER
EDITOR'S NOTE: Veterans
4uid their families are asking
thousands of questions coneern
ing the benefits their Govern
ment pi ovides for them through
the Veterans Administration.
Below are some representa
tive queries. Additional in
formation may be obtained at
any VA office.
Q My only income is S2OO
a month military retirement
benefit biased on longevity. I
am without dependents and, due
to a nonservice incurred dis
ability, I am totally disabled and
permanently liedridden. Am 1
eligible for VA pension bene
fits’ 1
A --If you waive your entire
retirement benefit, you may be
eligible for a tax-free VA dis
ability pension of $2lO a month,
which includes an aid and at
tendance benefit, contact your
nearest VA office.
* * *
Q -- I am a veteran rated 100
per cent for service-connected
disabilities incurred during
peacetime. Am I eligible for
out-patient treatment of ail
ments not related to military
service?
A-- No. You are not eligible
unless you had some wartime
service.
* * *
Q-1 am attending school
under the GI Bill. What must I
do to qualify for the increased
educational allowances under
the recent amendment to the GI
Bill?
A-- No action is required
on your part. The VA will auto
matically see that you receive
the increased payments.
* * *
Q I am 65 years old and
plan to retire soon. Can I con
vert my National Service Life
Insurance to the new Modified
Life Plan?
A-- No. The Modified Life
Plan insurance is not available
after six months have passed
since your 60th birthday.
* + *
Q -1 am a Vietnam veteran
who plans to start a small
business. May I use the GI
i loan for this purpose?
J A-- No, GI business loans
r are not available to Vietnam
veterans. However, you might
try the Small Business Ad
ministration.
* * *
Veterans' reemployment
rights to not differ for persons
who are drafted and those who
choose to enlist In the armed
for-eas.
Every now and then we are com
pelled to call upon a substitute
when one of our members Is
unable to attend and I’m wonder
ing if, in a case like this, it is
proper to ask the woman w'hois
filling in to put up SI.OO along
with the regular members.
SLAM.
DEAR SLAM: Since the guest
is already doing your club a big
favor by filling in, she should
not be asked to contribute any
money. The hostess in whose
home that meeting is taking
place should, In appreciation
of the guest’s courtesy, take
care of the extra fee.
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Holden Brings Hartford Into
Saint Aug.’s Al umni Fold
HARTFORD, Connecticut-
The Hartford St. Augustine’s
College Alumni became the ele
venth chapter in thirteen mont! s
to be organized and/or reacti
vated since Reter G. Holden,
Sr., president of St. Augustine’s
National (Reform) Alumni, was
elected to that office.
The Hartford chapter was
organized last Saturda; even
ing, by Mr. Holden, at 8 p.m.
during a meeting which was
staged in The Si. Monica’s Epis
copal Church Rectory on 138
Palm Street. Father Cyril C.
Burke, Rector at St. Monica’s,
was appointed Acting President
of the ::<• - .ilumr.i = apt.- hilt-
Dr. George B, I, •llet .a
proßiinent U-utL <• -■» Ist
was named Acting ft. ice
pre sident.
Ml . Ho! h .
for greater ah .. i. .ci -:.
and acti- atn ,n >h, .y ,i■ , C f
the air.a n.a' i - q ,-cial
emp! asis on reernr ... > of stu
dents trt k:
and St. \nzustl ; - ir eai
30 ...i!h. . dollai u :■ . and
de eh,.]-nil !m. in-' , pioi
ect .Ho also if= r •,1 *o
meeting. it! i f < ~in
on Septemtx ■ I tl
when the national i
•- relation’ holds Its annual
•confab by the sea’ on Virginia
tch. The convention wdl! be
Id in tiie Gay Vacationer Mo
•1 Inn at 34th St. and Ocean
rent.
\ftei the meeting, the group,
h! the exception of Father
d Mrs. Burke, journeyed tc
• is city’s exclusive La Scala’a
stuarant where they enjoyed
dertainment as the guests of
and Mrs. Jeffery R. Mc
ijrtne, an eminent Hartford
: -yciiiatrist. The St. Aueites
:i-i retired to the Me Alpines
' - ionable iiome in exclusive
"■si Hartford, where the\ ate
breakfast,
. Eapter officers appointed
‘Te; Fr. Biuke, president;
. -adler, \'ice-President, Dr.
'c Alpine Special Consultant
on Group Behavior Patterns
(to the National President);
Mrs. A, Gloria Burke; Mrs.
Margaret McAlpineSmith; Miss
Anne Warren; Mrs. Maria
Brocco and J, Albert Brocco.
Mr, Holden motored to Hart
ford with Charles E. Crowe
(formerly of Dunn and Mt. Olive
N, C.) and his twin daughters
Alice and Alicia and the visit
ing New Yorkers were the house
guests of former Shaw Univer
sity football and basketball star
Donald (Moon) and Mrs. Alice
Crowe Garner of Dunham St.
Upon arriving at the Garners’
former North Carolina AS.T
State University man Crowe
jokingly said ‘(guess what Gar
ner. . .Peter is here to organize
‘all three' St. Aug. alumni.”
Garner, in
THE CAROLINIAN
RALEIGH. N. C., WEEK ENDING HAT AUGUST 1. 1970
St. Augustine's, said - “it won't
work. -. .it won't work,” after-
W’hich all three let go a burst
laughter. Holden and Garner
who had confront each other
several times on the gridiron,
Garner wearing the maroon and
white of Shaw and Holden the
blue and white of St. Augus
tin’e talked about three hours as
they relived those days when
each played guard for his
sehool.
The two men’s conversation
centered around that Coach Jtm
’ my Lytle, Shaw University team
with the dream backfteld com
posed of Claude (Ram) Govan:
J (Hog) Fleming; Hollis
Creecy, Thomas KeeandMara
ble, Creecy and Fleming were
halfback, Govan fullback and
Kee and Marablo quarterbacks.
Garner revealed -a 39 year
Shaw University secret’when he
said “wo were always worried
about St. Aug.” St. Aug. during
those years had a losing team
while Shaw University was win
ning seven out of a nine game
card,
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Indians on reservations, who
now represent about two-thirds
of the more than 650,000 A
merican Indians, are the coun
try's most disadvantaged mi
nority group. These people have
an extremeh high unemploy
ment rate and an average annual
Income of less than $2,000.
Some Indians on reservations
earn as little as SSOO a year.
Drive Safely
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